GET STARTED ON YOUR PERSONALIZED ReTREAT TODAY!
It's not often automatic or easy...
The default mode in marriage inevitably drifts towards dull, distant or even disastrous. Don’t let that be you!
Invest in intimacy with a few days to unwind and give yourselves a chance to enjoy each other while you capture a clear picture of what you BOTH want and HOW to get it.
ENOUGH “problem pathologizing”. Enjoy a revitalizing RETreat that also helps you align and focus on what you actually want and stops you from wasting your finite energy on arguing about everything you DON’T want.
The problems WILL get handled. Just from a different perspective - as obstacles to what you actually want, verses being the focus themselves.
Don’t get stuck focusing on fixing or creating distance and defensiveness. Become not just partners but playmates for creating more and more of what you actually want.
Wouldn't it be easier, more enjoyable and so much less draining to focus on SOLUTIONS rather than getting "stuck in the muck" or dissecting dramas?
Can you imagine the DIFFERENCE in your relationship and day-to-day life if you were focused as ALLIES aiming for Awesome rather than adversaries at ODDS over every little thing?
When one beloved blames, the other beloved defends. It’s relationship math. Then you’re on a slippery slope that can easily turn a misunderstanding or bad day into a messy fight with deep and lasting impact.
LIVE and love from a CLEAR VISION of what you want, THEN look at the “problems” ONLY as to how they get in the way of what you REALLY want.
The Problem with Focusing on Problems
It is normal, natural and understandable to want to fix what isn’t working. Yet it can be draining, polarizing and detrimental to what you actually want. Focusing on problems is unhealthy and has a price to pay.
- Blaming, shaming, complaining and criticizing
- Your communication is adversarial and pulls you apart
- Fear + frustration are the norm - the fights are “dirty”
- Not hot for each other - the sex is “clean” or rare
- In for your own happiness - winning is for one
- Feeling unsafe, unaccepted or unappreciated
- Not trusting each other
- Sad / hopeless over the state of your relationship
- Others notice the quality of your love - your relationship is a source of embarrassment. (“That” couple)
- Don’t like each other or your life very much
The Benefits to Aiming
for Awesome
for Awesome
While those behaviors on the left are all way too common, they are not helpful nor enjoyable. It takes something to shift from fixing a problem to aiming for awesome, yet the rewards are immense.
- Problem solving is a natural byproduct of your efforts
- Your communication brings you together as allies
- The fights are “clean”
- You’re hot for each other and the sex is “dirty”
- You prioritize BOTH. It’s win-win or no deal
- You express yourself fully and feel fully accepted
- You feel seen, heard, appreciated and cared about
- You trust each other
- Others notice the quality of your love - your relationship is a source of inspiration. (“It” couple)
- You like each other and your life
Take a few days (and a DEEP BREATH), to ACKNOWLEDGE yourself, your partner and your Relationship.
Enjoy intimacy that deepens over time rather than fading behind walls built by daily bickering and distance. Real connection needs care and intention to keep growing.
Don’t wait for tension or disconnection to take over. INVEST in your relationship NOW while love is alive and hearts are open. Give it what it needs BEFORE it's demanded of you.
Break the habit of blaming, shaming or complaining. Lean into Loving Better by aiming for awesome today. Create YOUR relationship vision then turn your lofty goals into everyday realities.
Don't settle for problematic pairing, live into a PRO-ACTIVE partnership!
Revitalize your relationship. Leave the manic and the mundane behind with a CUSTOMIZED RETreat that blends creating a Marriage Map with plenty of personal time too.
Step away from the stress of everyday life and into a customized container for reflection, intention, and reset.
Explore your individual and shared hopes, and paint a clear picture on how to bring them to life.
Get on the same page and get excited about what’s possible.
Experience more connection, clarity and creativity.
Through guided conversations, meaningful exercises, plus plenty of time to unwind, you’ll create your unique Marriage Map, a guide for love and life getting better, and better, and BETTER. Unplug, relax, and savor some time to reconnect, dream, and just enjoy each other.
The For Better Love MARRIAGE MAP RETreat guides you through investing in intimacy with a FORWARD focus - while enjoying time to connect too!
Your Marriage Map RETreat includes...
- CUSTOMIZATION of the agenda in advance to meet YOUR needs.
- Creating your INDIVIDUAL ideal visions in 10 areas of love and life.
- Merging your individual visions into a SHARED vision.
- Condensing your full vision into a meaningful Marriage MANTRA.
- Creating specific GOALS to turn your shared vision into an everyday reality.
- Down time built in to do what else might DELIGHT you.
- Post ReTREAT follow up to help you FOLLOW THROUGH.
What can YOU expect?
Relaxation
- * Luxe Lodging (2 nights in location TBD)
- * Memorable meals
- Plenty of Personal Time for you and your partner
- Leave the manic and the mundane behind. Have life held and handled for you
* Lodging and meals can be provided, or you may choose to arrange them on your own.
Coaching
- Six Sessions including Welcome / Orientation Session, Sharing your individual visions, Integration and Support Sessions (90 min to 2 hrs)
- Merging: Combining your individual visions into a shared one
- Condensing: Shortening your extensive vision into a meaningful yet more manageable “mantra”
Resources
- Personalized Prompts which include your Marriage Map Manifestation video, magnet set and screen-saver with visions, mantra, and goals
- PLAYbook with step by step instructions (optional)
- FightsClean Sex Dirty (FCSD) Tool Kit Starter Pack + Access to all 90+ past episodes of FCSD TV and all 16 masterclasses
- Course Portal Access and Membership to the For Better Love Club email list (optional)
Follow-ups
- Integration session and follow up emails in the days, weeks, and months following your RETreat.
- Access to text/SMS Gaby for coaching at any time during the engagement period (1 week before and 1 month after).
- For Better Love AI Coach lifetime access.
Your Personalized RETreat Schedule and Pricing
All content and schedules are fully customizable to fit YOUR needs. Investment varies depending on lodging and meal options. I’ll walk you through everything on our consult call.
DAY 1
- Arrival
- Welcome / Orientation
- Setting Desired Outcomes
- BONUS: 1st pass at individual Vision
DAY 2
- Sharing of Individual Visions
- Merging into Shared Vision
- Identifying your Top 3 Priorities
- BONUS: Measuring Motivation
DAY 3
- Measuring Motivation
- 90-Day Goals Creation
- Mantra Reveal
- Next Steps
Where? YOU tell me!
Location to be determined in your Consult Call.
So far in 2026, Gaby will be in Santa Barbara California, Kauai Hawaii, West Palm Beach Florida, Bordeaux France, Manchester England and Byron Bay & Melbourne Australia. Where do YOU want to ReTREAT?
LOVE, PRAISE and HIGH-FIVES!
Creating a For Better Love MARRIAGE MAP sets you up for a MAJOR SHIFT from fixing "problems" as adversaries to aiming for Awesome instead.
Your Host & Guide on the side...
YOU know what's best for you, so I wont try to be a “sage on the stage”. Instead, consider me your “guide on the side” as you explore and create what you and your beloved want most.
I’m a love coach and educator devoted to helping couples bring more play, peace, and passion to love and life. With a Master’s in Education, Counseling & Guidance and over 25 years of experience, I’ve seen how powerful it is to turn complaints into constructive goals and lofty visions into everyday realities.
Through my blame-free, forward-focused approach and my playful 90 Day Games, I help couples shift from a “default” relationship into a truly delightful one.
I'm a wiz at supporting couples in not just digging themselves out of a relationship "ditch," but fostering a Couple Culture of Aiming for Awesome and pursuing what you actually both DO want instead.
I’m honored and delighted to be your Love Trifecta coach. Let's create more play, peace and passion today!
I’m a love coach and educator devoted to helping couples bring more play, peace, and passion to love and life. With a Master’s in Education, Counseling & Guidance and over 25 years of experience, I’ve seen how powerful it is to turn complaints into constructive goals and lofty visions into everyday realities.
Through my blame-free, forward-focused approach and my playful 90 Day Games, I help couples shift from a “default” relationship into a truly delightful one.
I'm a wiz at supporting couples in not just digging themselves out of a relationship "ditch," but fostering a Couple Culture of Aiming for Awesome and pursuing what you actually both DO want instead.
I’m honored and delighted to be your Love Trifecta coach. Let's create more play, peace and passion today!
Frequently Asked Questions
Couples who...
- Are tired of negativity, blaming, shaming and complaining and are ready to design for delight and creating more of what they BOTH want.
- Want personalized attention in a focused period of time tailored to their unique relationship needs.
- Are in transition, (life, work, parenting), who want to create alignment and stop drifting apart.
- Love each other but feel somehow misaligned, disconnected, or stuck in a cycle.
- Crave clarity, purpose, and momentum in their relationship, not just maintenance or survival.
- Have outgrown default patterns and want to consciously design their next chapter.
- Want depth, direction, and delight, not just “getting along.”
- Want intentional space to dream, align, and create together.
- Enjoy a luxurious, immersive experience to deepen connection and build a playful, peaceful, passionate future.
Couples who...
- Are looking for a quick fix rather than a meaningful, lasting transformation.
- Are unwilling to self-reflect or take shared responsibility for the relationship.
- Seek surface-level activities without depth, structure, or emotional honesty.
- Are in serious active crisis or considering separation who need intensive intervention first. (Available - set up a consult here)
- Are just looking to “check a box” rather than invest in alignment or they want big change but aren’t ready to put in time, energy, or resources to create it.
- Are unwilling to be vulnerable, curious, or open to new possibilities.
- Yes, this ReTREAT is for any committed couple ready to design your relationship with intention.
- Whether you’re engaged, long-term partners, or consciously choosing not to marry, you’re welcome here.
- As long as both partners are ready to reflect, vision, and grow together, then this is a perfect fit.
- If you’re all-in on each other and want to co-create a shared future, this ReTREAT is for you.
PLANS
- Yes, I offer flexible payment options to make your RETreat as accessible as possible.
- A non-refundable deposit is required to reserve your dates.
- The remaining balance is due at least 14 days before your RETreat begins.
- We can customize a payment plan, whether monthly or split payments, as long as it is completed before your RETreat starts.
- We can discuss what feels doable for you, and I will do my best to make it work.
CANCELLATIONS
- Life happens!
- If you cancel 14 days or more before your RETreat, I will refund any portion of your payment not already used for non-refundable expenses such as lodging, minus a $444 fee.
- If I can secure a refund for an expense I have already paid on your behalf, you will receive that amount as well.
- If you cancel within 14 days of your RETreat, payments are non-refundable.
- When possible, I am happy to apply part of your investment as credit toward a future RETreat or other offering.
REFUNDS
- Because this is a deeply personalized, time-intensive experience with limited availability, all payments are non-refundable once the retreat begins
- Your time here is fully customized for you, and once we start, your spot is completely yours.
- If anything feels off, I will work with you in real time to help you receive the clarity, alignment, and transformation you came for.
- To begin, please schedule a consult call at forbetter.love/meet (or text me!)
- Because this is a high-touch, limited-capacity experience, I want to ensure it’s the right fit for you and your beloved.
- This ReTREAT is designed for devoted, growth-oriented couples ready to invest in their future.
- This first conversation helps us explore alignment, answer your questions, and begin co-creating something truly special.
Did we miss your question? Reach out here and Gaby / her team will get back to you ASAP.
Create Your Personalized
For Better Love Marriage Map RETreat
ALERT: Are you and your beloved STRUGGLING with conflict? Does creating a VISION feel a little like putting icing on a crap cake at the moment?
We can customize this retreat to address and remove the immediate stress of the current conflict you are experiencing. We can also add on a half or full-day session to include:
Two individual VENTING FOR VICTORY sessions so you can each get the uglies out on your own and not on each other, and then translate them into clear feelings, needs and ideas for how to move forward.
Three to four sessions to ensure you both feel seen, heard, validated and empathized with about a particular issue, the RIFT RESIDUE REMOVAL series (AKA Send Receive Play) might be right up your alley.
Lean into Loving Better and creating more of what you BOTH want as partners and playmates. Gift yourselves and your relationship this personalized Marriage Map RETreat NOW!
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