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The Magic of Marriage Meetings
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My husband and I used to just squeeze in important, difficult, stressful or functional conversations whenever they popped into our mind. That was a recipe for disaster.
I’d wake up in the morning when my husband had already been up for a few hours and he’d have twenty questions ready to go while I was NOWHERE near ready to talk about ANYTHING let alone things like taxes, schedules or the to do list of the day.
By 9pm I’d be at the peak of thinking of life and next steps, but he was SPENT. I remember once asking him about my mom coming to visit and he just looked at me pleading to save it for another time.
I’d wake up in the morning when my husband had already been up for a few hours and he’d have twenty questions ready to go while I was NOWHERE near ready to talk about ANYTHING let alone things like taxes, schedules or the to do list of the day.
By 9pm I’d be at the peak of thinking of life and next steps, but he was SPENT. I remember once asking him about my mom coming to visit and he just looked at me pleading to save it for another time.
Then we agreed that we would refrain from asking each other about these types of functional issues after 9pm or before 9am. 9am to 9pm were our “office hours”.
Yet there were plenty of times within that window of our “office hours” where it was STILL intrusive or problematic to have these important, yet stressful discussions.
We noticed that talking about these issues at any time they popped into our mind was causing unnecessary stress and not handling the issues in a helpful way. The conversations easily turned into conflict and were susceptible to escalating into an argument all too easily.
Yet there were plenty of times within that window of our “office hours” where it was STILL intrusive or problematic to have these important, yet stressful discussions.
We noticed that talking about these issues at any time they popped into our mind was causing unnecessary stress and not handling the issues in a helpful way. The conversations easily turned into conflict and were susceptible to escalating into an argument all too easily.
We knew we needed a better habit to handle the functional in life without it robbing us of the opportunity for being flirty, having fun and relaxing together.
We experimented with different times, various agendas and found what works for us. It’s been a journey of exploration that’s ultimately saved us a ton of time, stress and conflict.
Now YOU know what works best for you, your marriage and your lives, so as you read through the options about the Magic of Marriage Meetings, don’t get overwhelmed by the options. Don’t take them all on. Pick and choose what seems like a helpful next step. Start small, explore and find your ideal flow for handling the functional and leaving yourselves time for flirty and fun to come in.
We experimented with different times, various agendas and found what works for us. It’s been a journey of exploration that’s ultimately saved us a ton of time, stress and conflict.
Now YOU know what works best for you, your marriage and your lives, so as you read through the options about the Magic of Marriage Meetings, don’t get overwhelmed by the options. Don’t take them all on. Pick and choose what seems like a helpful next step. Start small, explore and find your ideal flow for handling the functional and leaving yourselves time for flirty and fun to come in.
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Your GUIDE on the SIDE...
YOU know what's best for you, so I wont try to be a “sage on the stage”. Instead, consider me your “guide on the side” as you explore and create what you and your beloved want most.
While I have a Masters degree in Education, Counseling and Guidance and now over 25 years of coaching and teaching experience, it’s my own “messy-to-magical” marriage that has my relationship coaching be so spot on.
I’m a wiz at supporting couples in not just digging themselves out of a relationship "ditch", but fostering a Couple Culture of Aiming for Awesome and pursuing what you actually both DO want instead.
I’m honored and delighted to be your Love Trifecta coach, helping you create more play, peace and passion in love and life.
While I have a Masters degree in Education, Counseling and Guidance and now over 25 years of coaching and teaching experience, it’s my own “messy-to-magical” marriage that has my relationship coaching be so spot on.
I’m a wiz at supporting couples in not just digging themselves out of a relationship "ditch", but fostering a Couple Culture of Aiming for Awesome and pursuing what you actually both DO want instead.
I’m honored and delighted to be your Love Trifecta coach, helping you create more play, peace and passion in love and life.
Your ally in aiming for awesome,
